How to appreciate others?

Sometimes, it takes multiple tries to get where you want. You may notice that someone else seems to get everything done in one try. Your witnessing of their success upon first try might actually be success at their 100th try and you simply missed the other 99. 

Life never ends up being as it seems and everyone goes through hardships, visible or not. Make the best of this knowledge by treating people with kindness even if they don’t return the favor.

Later down the road, someone will notice you putting in the effort. It’s not that your making this effort to be noticed, but when the time is right, someone else will appreciate it.